Posted on: 05-27-2002 22:41
April Bennet is the daughter of Polly Smock. She grew up in Virginia Beach and went to the Quaker-run Friends School there. I've already published Smock's views on education (look below or in the archives to read the posts about her). April has just recently finished getting her Masters degree in therapy. I asked her for her views on her own experiences going to a private school. She replied:
Going to Friends School was one of the defining experiences of my life. It helped me feel like a
good, worthwhile person because there were teachers who cared about me and who taught me according to what I needed, not just what the curriculum demanded. In 3rd grade, I tested at a 12th grade reading level, and my teacher sent me to the library during language arts time --to do whatever I wanted. She knew I would read, becuase that's what I loved to do, and thus I learned to value and pursue my abilities with words. I also learned that what I was good at was important to her because she valued the person I was becoming, and wanted to see who that would be.
In contrast, I was told during my 2nd grade year in public school that I worked too slowly, and was not allowed out at recess because of that. This was the "advanced" section of second grade. I was put in a reading group that was far below my capacities, and when I told the teacher that I had already finished, in my previous year at Friends School, the language arts book the class was working on, my teacher ignored me. Flat out pretended I hadn't spoken.
My mother sent me back to Friends School the next year, even though she had to take on a second job as the school's maintenance person to do it. She paid in monthly installments for my elementary education, finishing the payments sometime in my first year of college. When I went back to public school again in the seventh grade, I went immediately to the library, expecting it to be the warm, welcoming place that it was at Friends School. I was surprised to be either unacknowledged or treated suspiciously, and did not spend much further time there.
Such is life! I don't know what I think about school vouchers. I do believe that our public schools should be wonderful places, with creative and expansive and exciting educational programs, with teachers who have vision and create kids who are excited to learn. I don't know how to do that, but I do know that we haven't really tried.
Making testing a priority doesn't create a good educational system becuase it's not a theory of education, it's a theory of achievement. Achievement comes after education, and is based on the motivating talents in a person. Tests, then, don't even get at everyone's achievements, while they wrongly assume that everyone has had the kind of education that will reveal their particular ability to achieve.
Maybe I'm saying that we would be a better country if our schools were creative, expansive, amazing, and well-funded places, and that it's somewhat of a cop-out to give up on the schools by sending kids away from them. It's a cop-out for the government, not the parents. I understand the parents' motivation completely.
So maybe we should have vouchers and the government should be so embarrassed about that that they work hard to make our public schools really great. Until then, though, I have to say I don't think I will let the public schools fail my children the way they failed me.
So, no easy answers. But this is really the first time I've thought about it. I'd be interested in what you think, as you've probably done bunches of good research.